Saturday, February 2, 2008

Sanity - Monday Men's group

Principle 2: 

Earnestly believe that God exists, that I matter to Him, and that He has the power to help me recover.
Happy are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. (matthew 5:4)

Step 2:

We came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
For it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his purpose. (Philippians 2:13)

Group question: What things have you been doing over and over and expecting a different result?

Misc. answers from our mixed men's group Monday night:

  • Trying to change people
  • Arguing with my wife
  • How I talk and relate to my wife
  • Acting like somebody that I am not
  • Ignoring problems and relationships
  • Move to a new place and think my problems won't resurface
  • Looking to people to help/solve my problems

#1 Answer that all seemed to have in common: Trying to do things  and make positive changes that I'm powerless to do on my own.

Group Question: What is your definition of sanity?

Misc. answers from our mixed men's group Monday night:

  • Calm, flowing and orderly life
  • Consistency, balanced life/work/relationships
  • Realizing that I cannot change others
  • A yielded life
  • Realizing I'm not the center of the universe
  • Aware of small victories
  • Standing on the "mezzanine" and seeing my life through God's eyes.
  • Transparency
  • Doing this Celebrate Recovery program

My personal favorite answer of the night: 
  • "Me...fitting into God's world; not trying to cram God into mine"

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